The Write It Scared Podcast
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The Write It Scared Podcast
Writing Sex Scenes Without Cringe: What Actually Works in Fiction
How do you write a sex scene that readers actually read and not just skim?
That’s what today’s episode is all about!
Author Accelerator certified book coaches Stacy Frazer and Jennifer Larkin team up for an honest conversation about writing sex in fiction—without cringe.
Stacy and Jen discuss when sex scenes belong in a story, how explicit they need to be, and how to write intimacy that deepens character and advances the plot.
You’ll learn how genre expectations (including YA vs. adult), consent, and emotional intent shape effective intimate scenes—and how to make intentional choices that serve your story.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
01:50 Guest: Jennifer Larkin
03:20 Do you need a sex scene in your novel?
10:04 Sex scenes in YA vs. adult
21:16 Purpose of sex scene and level of explicitness
26:20 Common mistakes
29:09 Consent on the page
35:05 When to include a sex scene
Jennifer Larkin helps romance writers turn good ideas into epic stories and jagged drafts into lovable novels.
Grab her free guide to writing better romance scenes at https://jenniferlarkin.kit.com/scenes.
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